There are two questions I almost always get asked by clients…
Choosing what to wear for your Maui family portrait can be super overwhelming!
You want your kids and yourself to feel comfortable and like yourself, but more put together. You want the clothing not to be fussy and stand up to the wind and sand and water. And you want all the outfits to look good individually, and together, but without being to matchy-matchy.
Boy! That’s a long list! But don’t worry, here are some general DOs and DONTs to get you started on picking the perfect outfits for your family photo session here on Maui.
> Comfort. Choose something your kids have worn before and feel comfortable in. If your little one has never worn a romper or ruffles before, this is not the time to find our that she hates them.
This also goes for mom and dad. If you like the idea of a strapless dress, but notice that you end up fussing with it all the time, because you feel slightly self-conscious (that’s me), then save it for another time. We want you all to focus on each other and have a great time at the session!
> Be the star! This one’s especially for moms. Pick a dress or garment because it makes YOU look good, not because IT looks good.
Sometimes you’ll need another set of eyes to decide this, but most often you’ll know because you think “I feel great wearing that dress.” versus “That dress is so beautiful.”
> You want durable & hassle free. For little ones, pick fabrics that can stand up to the elements–especially important if we’re shooting at the beach on Maui. Invariably they’ll end up squatting down to dig in the dirt, really no matter where we are, so be prepared.
Choose something that doesn’t wrinkle already on the drive to the shoot.
Swimwear is a secret weapon and perfect match for a beach shoot. It will stand up to water and sand and doesn’t wrinkle.
For boys you can find beautiful patterned or solid-colored trunks and add a white shirt (cheap and easy to buy and bring a backup).
For girls, swimsuits can make a great base upon which to layer wrap skirts, dresses, kaftans. And white swimwear will usually stay white at the beach.
Fabrics that flow and can be draped looks especially beautiful in photos, because they add movement and texture. Look for skirts or dresses made out of light fabrics like silk, chiffon, or rayon.
> Bring backups. I’m not a fan of outfit changes to get different looks. In my experience it adds stress and takes time and energy from the session. Plus, in an album or gallery the photos will be less cohesive. A change tends to draw focus to the clothing as opposed to the people.
But it’s nice to have backup if something doesn’t work or has gotten dirty or overly wet. A simple white shirt doesn’t cost much and doesn’t take up a lot of space but you might be glad to have it.
> Accessorize! Take a neutral, pastel, perfectly nice but boring wardrobe set and add your own personality and some pizzazz to it! Sprinkle in some pompoms or maybe some raffia accents for flavor. Most importantly have fun with it!
> Think about the location when picking your outfits. For instance, choose colors from the beautiful hues of the ocean at sunset. That doesn’t mean it has to be blues.
Neutrals such as soft pink, peach, cream, muted purple, and beige all photograph extremely well. They blend effortlessly with the natural elements rather than competing with them.
> Pick your level of formality and keep it the same for all members of the family.
If you are going for casual, make sure everyone is dressed in shorts and summer dresses.
If you opt for a more dressy look with a glamorous dress, then dad has to step it up with slacks or even a suit. Formal wear adds an unexpected zing and looks amazing in natural surroundings, such as beaches, rocky outcrops, and forests!
Hats! Hats! HATS! Hats are amazing! The right hat can instantly dial up the glamor factor of any outfit! Instead of merely wearing a dress, you’ll be wearing an outfit. If you’re feeling “hat-shy,” know that there is a hat out there for you: boater, wide brim, cloche, fedora. In straw they are the perfect tropical accessory. Plus they are so fun to pose with!
Dare to be bold! Pick a bold, fun design element to inspire your wardrobe and then use it boldly but sparingly. Pops of pink, orange, and yellow in your outfits will look fresh and tropical. Feathers, sequins, or fringe are super fun to experiment with, yet can still be timeless. I love sequins at the beach! They look fun and unexpected but will not make your photos look outdated if used with discretion.
> Too many patterns. Hawaii is famous for its Hawaiian shirts, dresses with tropical floral prints, and matched patterned family attire. Coordination is nice, but you can go overboard and end up looking more like an advertisement or worse like a hodgepodge of busy flower print.
> Shoes are optional. If your session is at the beach, don’t wear shoes–no matter your level of formality. They’ll just get wet, sandy, and will sink into the ground.
At a different location, i.e. rocky outcrops, forest, jungle, shoes are optional and based on your overall look. Barefoot is always in style and looks beautiful!
> Writing & brand names. It’s best to avoid slogans, brand names, or logos on wardrobe. Some children’s brands put rhymes or empowering slogans on kids’ shirts. For photos, I advise against that. They often become outdated and draw attention away from you or your child.
You’re not a billboard after all. You’ll be glad to have chosen something timeless.
> Don’t overdo it with statement pieces or accessories. Two (max three) is good. Four can be too much. Pick two places to match in statement color or design element.
For instance, if your playful element is pompoms, pick two items such as the rim of a skirt for mom and a hat for your girlie. If your statement piece is raffia, maybe earrings for mom and a raffia hat for baby. Two items will guarantee that your family wardrobe will look tied together but not overdone or matchy-matchy.
Bra straps or slips can be a source of frustration. If you think you might have to fuss with them, bring a strapless bra or some nipple stickers just in case. I always carry safety pins and fashion tape. Another good item to have on hand is lip balm or lip gloss. Instant refresher for the face.
No matter how body positive, everyone has some areas they’re conscious of. Yes, even or maybe especially models! So don’t worry know that you’re ready as you are–it’s the clothing that needs to step up and bring out your most attractive self.
Wrap skirts and dresses are flattering on mostly everyone, especially if they’re cut from a draping fabric. Skinny belts can be used to create a waistline.
After that it’s all posing! You can age someone by 10 years with the wrong lighting, or make them look 15 pounds heavier. Or you can do the opposite! Pick a skilled photographer with a good eye for detail, and who’ll direct you well.
Here’s a fool-proof way to make your family look coordinated without looking like an advertisement or an perfectly matched set. You can use this trick for all kinds of occasions, not just photo shoots.
Step 1: Select a single patterned outfit for one person. Two people share the same pattern if you’re a large family (5+), or if you feel confident, you can find another similar pattern, maybe in a smaller print.
Step 2: Pick 3 or 4 colors from that pattern to dress that you like.
Step 3: Dress everyone else in those colors plus neutrals (beige, white, sand, gray).
Solids photograph well, and that one pattern is often enough to add some tropical pizzazz.
Short-cut: If you still feel overwhelmed, go monochrome! Just pick one color family, like blues and give each family member their own hue, aka specific dark or light sage of blue. That will eliminate all the pressure of matching colors.
Here are some inspiration boards for different looks ranging from pastel romantic to bold sherbet tones.
For more inspiration for family wardrobe styling, check out the Emma Wyatt Pinterest!
Here are some of my favorite brands for pulling wardrobe from for shoots. Over the years, I’ve found satisfied with the quality of these brands. Their clothing looks good in photographs and often they offer pieces with interesting cuts, patterns, and colors.
For Mom: J. Crew, Ted Baker, Kate Spade, Vintage finds from Etsy or TheRealReal, Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren, Michael Kors, BHLDN, Tommy Bahama, Dolce & Gabbana, Rent The Runway, Norma Kamali
For Dad: J. Crew, Tommy Bahama, Levi’s, Perry Ellis, Mack Weldon, Nordstrom, Prada, Hugo Boss
For Kids and Babies: Coco Moon Hawaii, Feather4Arrow, Janie & Jack, Mini Boden, Old Navy, Tea Collection, Billabong, Roxy, Trish Scully, Dolce & Gabbana, Primary, Hope & Henry, Maisonette, Stella Cove, Etsy for vintage or one-of-kind pieces
Emma Wyatt Photography also has curated a Etsy Shopping list with vintage Hawaiiana items.
Perhaps you’re on island and discover that you’re missing an outfit for someone. I routinely leave someone’s clothes at home when I travel. Don’t worry!
There are some great places on Maui to shop for your photo session. In fact, these stylish kids’ and ladies’ boutiques will ensure that your tropical look is on point! I have a whole blog post dedicated to it.
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